ytd i was busy gg out meeting my coursemate for financial planning cos bf kind of wants me to know more abt financial planning and plan for my future...true indeed tat i dun giv a damn abt fiancial planning cos parents lost alot of money when i was young in financial planning which is meant for my uni education one.so naturally,seeing how much money they lost, i wouldnt want to invest in financial planning too. and moreover i have been brainwash since young not to take up financial planning, so naturally whenever any financial advisor call me, i will naturally reject their call and wont giv them a chance to promote the plans that they selling.
so this time round, i was nice cos this finanical planner was my friend so i decided to giv him a chance to tell me what's the plan he is selling.actually true indeed, the plan he was selling seems ok, but i am still abit worried abt not being able to pay for long term duration and i will lose money evenutally if i cant afford it in a long.after the discusion, i would say tat fianancial planning is abt taking risk and investing in something that you cant predict if it would happen.after giving a thought, i feel perhaps i should really plan for my future.this time round i was lucky tat i have bursary to help me pay off my sch loan, else perhaps i have to work damn hard for another 2-3 yrs to pay off everything.but i believe i am not tat lucky everytime.
and ytd ex send me a long msg to me regarding my worries for sch loan.in the msg he mentioned: "i'm glad you have found yourself someone nice. really happy for you. remember, there's bound to be unhappy times, but give in a lil, don't expect perfection and life can be a lot better together. if you insist on your ways always, life is tough. besides it's too short to be living miserably. if this one doesn't work out, don't force things to happen.don't marry a person because of what has happened in the past, but what you can do together for the future."
i totally agree with him cos i will only marry if i tink i am certain if he is the one, and not marrying off for the sake of the age..actually i felt somewhat happy cos i actually receive my blessing from my ex..the feeling to receive blessing from ur ex is really undescribable cos many many yrs i really hope we can be friends again.but many yrs after we broke up we never contacted each other again til last yr we started talking again..well, i guess i still didnt lose a friend evenutally. ;)
i still left a wk more to sydney.man, i haven plan anything.cos i am very busy with lots of stuff and i cant wait to get out of this hse.this bloody mum everyday keep finding fault wif me..sigh how long more i still needa stay in this hse. ;(
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