Thursday, July 28, 2005

letting go...

Nothing is worse than someone breaking yourheart. To need somebody so badly and then tohave to let them go is hard. And as we grow older,the more people break our hearts, the worse it canfeel each time.Broken hearts are depressing, embarrasing anddifficult. Fortunately, heartbreak doesn't lastforever.Let yourself let goIn dealing with a broken heart, the first thing is tolet go completely. If it was not meant to be, thenjust let them go, and trust that someone better isgoing to come along. If we go back to that personwho broke our hearts, they will see us as nothingmore than defeated, and we would riskembarassment. A good way to just let go is toresist the urge to return, and simply avoid callingthem on the phone, emailing or contacting themotherwise.Feel your heartIt's okay to feel bad. Take some time to feel bad.Take a walk by yourself, or listen to some sadmusic. There is value to every feeling, as everyfeeling teaches us something new about ourselves.Talk to somebody about it. A close friend will letyou vent all of your angerAs time goes on weand move further andfurther away into the 'past.' And as each daypasses by, the hurt will go away, little bylittle, untilwe don't even remember the pain at all.Keep your eyes forwardThe future is rushing towards us faster thanwe can comprehend, and if we keepour heads turned backwards, looking at the past,we will miss seeing everything that thefuture is bringing to us.
yesterday so shiok sia stay at home do my own stuff..then can do things at my own speed..then tmml think i will pon again cos reali got a lot of stuff to do..cant finish my hw!!!!!anyway todae's lesson quite ok lah..then my dad's is veri demanding sia..maybe this job wont last for long..sigh...then cm actually appeared on then FHM..sia lah
this week veri busy sia..duno why..then hor duno why on tues nite i cried..not sure why, maybe i still cant get over it or i am just lost in the mist and duno wat should i do..hai~~

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