ways to dump a person..

are you duped?
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Not familiar with rejection lines? Here's what wereally mean. So get a hint, ok, guys? Sheesh.10. I think of you as a brother. (You remind me ofthat f**king pest. And I'm not into incest either.)9. There's a slight difference in our ages. (Youare one jurassic geezer.)8. I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way. (Youare the ugliest freak I've ever laid eyes upon.)7. My life is too complicated right now. (I don'twant you spending the whole night or else you mayhear phone calls from all the other guys I'm seeing.)6. I've got a boyfriend (He's my male cat and ahalf gallon of Ben and Jerry's).5. I don't date men where I work. (Actually, Iwouldn't even date you if you were in the same'solar system', much less the same building.)4. It's not you, it's me. (It's not me, it's you.)3. I'm concentrating on my career/studies. (Evensomething as boring and unfulfilling as myjob/studies is better than dating you.)2. I'm celibate. (I've sworn off only the men likeyou.)1. Let's be friends. (I want you to stay around soI can tell you in excruciating detail about allthe other men I meet and have fun with. It's thatmale perspective thing)


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If you're afraid to love a person because offriendship, you have two choices: either tell whatyou feel and let the love take place or hide thefeeling under a friendship full of pretensions.It's hard for two people to love each other whenthey live in two different worlds but when thesetwo worlds collide and become one, that's what youcall magic!Love can never be so beautiful without friendship.One leads to another and the process is irreversible. The best of lovers is the greatest of friends!I like you because you're my friend, and becauseyou are my friend I care, and because I care, Ilove you. I don't love you because you are my friend, I love you because I do!Sometimes I've asked myself, what would make mehappy? To think that I have everything else, I getwhat I want. Then I realized it was YOU, too bad'cause it's you i can't have. I can't choose whoI'm gonna love, but I also can't love who choosesto love me.And you can't blame me in choosing to love you asmuch as I can't blame you for not learning to loveme. I'm sorry if you can't love me the way youloved the one before me, so I'll let you go findhim/her and hope someday you'll see that the onetrue love you're looking for was the one who setyou free."HOW CAN I SAY GOODBYE TO SOMEONE I NEVER HAD?WHY DO TEARS FALL FOR SOMEONE WHO WAS NEVER MINE?WHY IS THAT I MISS SOMEONE I WAS NEVER WITH AND I ASKED WHY I LOVE SOMEONE WHO'S LOVE WAS NEVER MINE?"Isn't it funny we're trying to catch the attention of the one we think we love; we hardly notice the one we're really looking for was just there. You don't notice them 'till they are in the arms of someone else.Food for thought, think of this:Have you really cared for someone more than youexpected?Have you ever tried to love him/her despite of allthe pain?Will you keep on loving him/her as he/she whisperssomeone else's name? Will you?It's better to lose your pride with someone youlove rather than lose that someone you love withyour useless pride. When you love someone, don'texpect that person to love you back the sameamount. One of you will be head, the other behind.It's either you catch up or the other waits.When you love, you must not accept anything inreturn, for if you do, you're not loving but Investing.If you love, you must prepare to accept pain, forif you expect happiness, you're not loving butusing. True love hears what is not spoken, andunderstands what is not explained, for love doesn't work in the mouth, nor the mind, but in the heart...Love is like standing on wet cement, the longeryou stay the harder it is to leave and you cannever go without leaving your prints behind.Don't love a person like a flower, because a flower dies in season.Love them like a river because a river flows forever.Love doesn't have to have a happy ending, 'causelove doesn't have to end at all.Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pains, but if youdon't follow your heart, in the end you will cryeven more for not giving love a chance.Love may leave your heart like shattered glass,but keep in mind that there's someone who'll bewilling to endure the pain of picking up the pieces so you could be whole again.The cruelest thing a guy could do to a girl is tolet her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall! And fooling around with her feelings like they meant nothing.(This goes for gals as well).