Tuesday, April 12, 2005

a message to me~

Love the girl in your heart, not in yourmind. If you base your relationship on feelings, itwill fail for there are ups & downs in feelings. Girlsare there to be loved, not toyed around.Love her for who she is. Don't even think aboutchanging any bit about her. 6 billion people in thisworld & 6 billion different personalities. She'sspecial & she will stay that way. You change anypart of her, you'll change her forever. Don'tsubstitute her for anyone else, they are just uniquein their own ways.Love whole-heartedly. She sacrificed a lot for youso you'd better really treassure her. She couldhave just got up & date a so much more dashingguy in town but she chose you instead all becauseof love. So love her guys, not play with her.Don'tjust get the girl to beg you to stay or whatsoever. Ifyou're with her, love her.Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll endup loving each other out of pity or charity, that'snot respecting love at all. Respect love the way itis & everything will be the best it can be. I've beenthere & I know how it feels.Don't expect perfection from her. She's the onlyone in the world & she's done the best she could.Like another girl while you're in a relationship?Then I think it's time you remain single for a while.Don't go around breaking girls' hearts, it's themost tragic thing to do.Tell the truth, never hide anything from her. If youwant her to tell you everything, do the same.Don't go calling other girls "honey" or "darling",how would it feel if your girl calls other guys thesame way? Be faithful, enough is enough.Socialise only when you're single. You socialise &flirt around is to get the girl of your dreams. Get itover when she's already yours, don't ask for more.It never kills to be romantic. Think, beflexible.Getting that diamond ring isn't the only giftfor her. Be realistic, she's human & she lives lifejust like you. Something sweet & simple alwaysget the job done.Money doesn't exist between couples, it's thelove.Never promise her that you'll love her foreverbecause your forever might end the next day.Loveher as if each day is the last.Sweet talking only applies for singles, not forattached guys. Do that & you'll really break yourgirl's heart.It isn't good being too well-known too, it'll give herasense of insecurity. Remember, INSECURITY.Promise her & make sure you never break thepromise. Swear to her & make sure you live up toyour word. Pledge your love to her & her alone.Loving her is giving her your heart to break it buttrusting her not to. Same goes for her,giving u herheart means allowing u to break it and trusting unot to. Instead, she'll cherish it & protect it.Should'nt you do the same thing as well? That'slove.Give her your heart, your life, your everything. Laydown your life & prepare to die for her when theneed arises. But stay strong & live throughanother day, she can never live without you.Never, ever walk out of her life. She won't just cryher heart out & carry on living as per normal, she'ddie.Its her heart that you've broken, how would youever know how she feels?Winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. Don'tleave her once you've won her love. Love her alltheway till the end of time, love her till marriage, loveher till old age, love her till death. If you can loveher till the end of time, you've earned the honor &respect for you've truly loved her.She chose you because she believes that you canfulfil your promise. Win her heart back & love herall over again.
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